Why Use a Lawyer as your Divorce Mediator?

Many very capable mediators are not lawyers. So why use a lawyer? First of all, it is one-stop shopping. While a mediator can arbitrate your dispute and even reduce it to a written agreement, most mediators then have an attorney review it. And when the divorce papers need to be drafted and submitted to the court, the mediator typically requests an attorney to handle that process. I submit that when you use an attorney from the outset you are streamlining the process.

More importantly, a lawyer will be sensitive to the matrimonial and family law changes that issue forth from Albany each year. A good lawyer is constantly reviewing the latest court decisions and monitoring developments in Albany. Why is that important? As mentioned, the laws change constantly and a judge in Nassau County may interpret a new statute differently from a judge in Manhattan. In putting together an agreement that will impact you and your spouse for many years, you want to avoid any legal issues down the road if you can avoid it.

This is not to create more work for lawyers. In my opinion, it is common sense. I have practiced law for many years. I cannot count the number of times a friend or relative has asked me to handle their criminal matter or personal injury suit. I know that in some cases I could represent that client competently, but I am more aware that the odds say I might make a mistake, and a mistake in a legal matter can have destructive consequences. I respectfully submit that you are better off employing a lawyer from start to finish who has the experience to review your case and discover facts that work to your advantage.

If you wish to schedule an initial consultation, please contact me at 212-605-0435 or 516-280-3123.